Umutungo w'ingenzi mubuzima bwa nyina: abana be

Umutungo w'ingenzi mubuzima bwa nyina: abana be

Mw'isi yuzuye ibintu byinshi kandi bigenda bihinduka, ubutunzi bw'umubyeyi ni weumwana. Ubu bucuti bwimbitse burenga imipaka yubutunzi, urwego, hamwe nibyifuzo byabaturage kandi bikubiyemo urukundo rutagira icyo rushingiraho, ruhindura. Mugihe twishimira ishingiro ryababyeyi, ni ngombwa kumenya inzira zitabarika umwana atungisha ubuzima bwa nyina.

Kuva igihe cyo gusama, ubuzima bwa nyina burahinduka kuburyo budasubirwaho. Gutegereza ubuzima bushya bizana umunezero, ibyiringiro, no kumva intego. Mugihe umwana we akura, urukundo rwumubyeyi narwo rurahinduka, bigahinduka nijoro ridasinziriye, intambwe yambere, nintambwe zitabarika. Buri mwanya wo kurera no kuyobora umwana ni gihamya yimbaraga za nyina no kwihangana.

Ubushakashatsi buherutse gukorwa bwerekana ko isano iri hagati y’ababyeyi n’abana babo igira ingaruka zikomeye ku mibereho myiza yombi. Abana baha ababyeyi kumva indangamuntu nibikorwa byabo, akenshi bababera imbaraga zo kwifuza kwabo. Mubisubize, ababyeyi bashiramo indangagaciro, ubwenge, nurukundo bigira ibisekuruza bizaza. Iyi mibanire isubiranamo nubutunzi budashobora kubarwa.

Byongeye kandi, imbogamizi ababyeyi bahura nazo, uhereye kuringaniza akazi nimiryango kugeza kugendana ningorabahizi zita kubabyeyi, gusa byongera ubumwe. Ababyeyi bakunze gusanga babaye abunganira abana babo, baharanira uburenganzira bwabo n'imibereho yabo mu isi yubugome kandi itababarira.

Mugihe dutekereza ku kamaro k'ubwo bucuti, ni ngombwa kwishimira no gushyigikira ababyeyi ku isi. Igitambo cyabo nubwitange nibyo shingiro ibisekuruza bizaza bikura. Ubwanyuma, umurage w'umubyeyi w'ingenzi ntabwo ari ibintu bifatika, ahubwo ni ibitwenge, urukundo, n'umurage w'abana be.